Summer is around the corner—and if you’re a working parent like me, you’re probably already feeling the pressure. School’s out, camps are expensive (and somehow already full), and your calendar is filling up with everything except time for yourself.
Balancing work and family life is never easy, but something about summer makes it even trickier. Longer days don’t mean fewer responsibilities. They mean more opportunities to feel like you’re dropping the ball somewhere.
After a few years of figuring it out as I go, here are 10 things that have genuinely helped me stay sane, stay connected to my kids, and still get my job done—even during the summer chaos.
1. Plan Summer Like a Project
I treat summer like a big work deadline: research, prep, and a backup plan. Lining up camps, sitters, and activities ahead of time reduces the mental load later.
2. Get Comfortable with Imperfection
Some days, screen time wins. Other days, the house is a mess, and dinner is cereal. It’s okay. Let go of the pressure to make everything perfect. It’s not realistic, and it’s not necessary.
3. Anchor Mornings with Routine
Even when everything else is unpredictable, a steady morning helps. Whether it’s breakfast together or a quick walk before the workday starts, that small touchpoint grounds us.
4. Time-Block What Matters
Put work blocks and family blocks on your calendar. Schedule the swim lesson pickup with the same seriousness as a client call. That way, neither gets shortchanged.
5. Share the Load (and the Google Sheet)
Whether it’s your partner, a grandparent, a babysitter, or a neighbor, don’t go it alone. A shared summer calendar has saved my sanity more than once.
6. Create Micro-Moments of Summer Joy
Not every memory needs to be a vacation. Popsicles after work, an impromptu water balloon fight, or a backyard dinner can be just as special.
7. Be Honest With Work
Let your team know when you leave for a kid’s activity or summer pickup. Most people understand, and clear communication helps avoid last-minute stress.
8. Keep a Boredom Buster Drawer
A bin of puzzles, crafts, books, or LEGOs—only used during “Mom needs 30 minutes” mode—goes a long way. It gives them something to do and buys you a little focus time.
9. Prioritize Your Own Recharge Time
Even 15 minutes to yourself can make a difference. Whether you’re having coffee on the porch or zoning out with a podcast, remember to refill your own cup.
10. Don’t Compare Your Summer to Anyone Else’s
You don’t need to follow anyone’s Instagram. If your kids feel loved and you’re doing your best, that’s enough.
If you’re in the middle of juggling all the things, know this: you’re not alone. You’re not behind. You’re doing the best you can. And that’s more than enough.
